It does seem to have an inherent sort of hard or even slightly glaring aspect to the sound, most noticeable in how the upper mids and treble are presented.
I would consider headphones other than HE-400i if what you want is relaxo laid back. Maybe HD650, Paradox Slant, Mad Dogs, PM2 (maybe with PM1 pads), LCD2.2. I'd be happy to give you a succinct comparo summary of those five headphones if you would like.